Great Sex Tips for Females

It is a shame that for many couples, a lack of sexual variety and exploration leads to a waning of interest in sex over time. Often it is the woman who come off second best and they may lose and interest in sex, their partner or both. Surveys have shown that poor quality sex is one of the main reasons women have affairs outside their marriage and that many women complain that men are lacking when it comes to satisfying a woman. Here are some ideas that will hopefully add spice and satisfaction to your sex life.


Tell your partner what you like and want. Men complain that women simply don't tell them what they enjoy. Open up to your partner, tell him what gives you the most pleasure and what you would like to try. Maybe even share a fantasy together - who knows, it may come true.


Many people have emotional motivations for having sex. There are a variety of emotional benefits of sex, including:It could improve your self-confidence.
It could help you connect with your own body in a pleasurable way.
It could help you bond with your partner, and it could be a way of expressing love and care for them.
It can relieve stress.
Create the right mood. It is hard to be in the mood for great sex when the house is a mess, the children are screaming and you've had a long and stressful day. Set aside a time when you can focus on your lovemaking without distractions. Adding some candles, incense, wine and rugs can add greatly to the sense of relaxation and eroticism.

Appeal to men's visual sense to get him wanting you. Men are very visual creatures - that's why they enjoy looking at women so much! Knowing this, find ways to stimulate your man visually. Look at some sexy images on your computer together, wear some revealing lingerie (and if you don't have any suggest you can go out together and buy some).

Use toys. Sex toys are a part of countless happy sexual relationships and can add a great deal of fun. Take a trip to the sex shop together or have a look online.

Think about a threesome. Yes! Even just talking about it can add an erotic edge to your lovemaking. But if you're brave enough, the real thing can be very memorable for you both.

Watch an erotic movie together. Soft porn erotic movies that you can rent from the movie rental store or online can be a great way to get you going for a night of passion. "Eyes Wide Shut" and "The Story of O" are two famous titles.



With a bit of planning and imagination, things such as the ideas above can make a great difference in spicing up your sex life. Have fun!

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Michael Andrews is a well-known therapist, author and counselor specialising in couples' relationships, especially sexual relationships. He is the Director of the Love Sex Institute and produces the Great Sex Tip of the Day at